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Post by ProblemChild on Sept 8, 2005 23:51:04 GMT -5
ok i have been seing this realy cute guy and we went out for dinner.we went home to my house because my parents where gone for the night.we wernt planning on doing anything but we got into bed and watched tv.well we startedkissing and then he started undressing me. so i went along =and we ended up having sex. then the next morning i woke up and he went home.now this has become like somthing we do like everyoweek. .please help.
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Post by lizbeth on Sept 8, 2005 23:53:58 GMT -5
hey, ok, first of all. how old are you? and second of all, we don't need the details thanks much. the best way to stop that is to not allow it to start in the first place. tell your parents. make sure that you aren't alone with him. if he continues to pressure you tell him you need to stop.
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Post by Tgirl4God on Sept 8, 2005 23:57:15 GMT -5
well if your letting him do it your not realy trying to stop him from doing it and if your letting him do it he doesnt know what hes doing wrong
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Post by PorblemChild on Sept 9, 2005 0:10:30 GMT -5
i agree i mean it takes two 2 tango
im 19
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Post by lizbeth on Sept 9, 2005 0:12:48 GMT -5
well, i mean obviously you know what you were doing was wrong or else you wouldn't have posted on here. and if you really truly want to stop just take those extra precuations
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Post by Tgirl4God on Sept 9, 2005 11:48:44 GMT -5
now is this seteled?
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Post by ProblemChild on Sept 9, 2005 11:58:29 GMT -5
yeah.......thanks for helping
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Post by lizbeth on Sept 9, 2005 13:39:36 GMT -5
i hope that you can overcome this, i'm glad that you're seeking to do the right thing... cause a lot of people these days throw sex around like it's nothing. and it most definitly IS something. something very unique and special that God created for married people to share and to enjoy. but when you're haivng sex outside of the bounds of marriage... you're tainting something beautiful that God created.
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Post by azninvasion on Nov 30, 2005 0:50:11 GMT -5
ok buddy listen up........i dont want to come down on you but why would you put your self in that situation? plus think about this before anything else there's already a guy out there for you you might not know him at the moment but when you meet him you'll know in your heart if he is the one. so, im not saying that this guy isnt the one, but no sex until marriage. u wouldnt wanna take away the best gift some one could ever give thier future spouse u know? any eho, if you need to talk to someone im here to help. yeah you dont know me but i'll be praying for you and if you really need some one to talk to or vent on then holla back. aight
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